I have spent over an hour looking and I'm sure it's right infront of my face but I can't find a place to set rules for my game, I have tried /ssb/editgame and there's nothing there on it. What am I doing wrong?

I think you want /ssb64/editgame first (there doesn't seem to be a game with ssb as its abbreviation), and then to change rules go down to where full-game categories are and click (or maybe double-click) on 'No rules have been defined' next to each category.

Ahhh that helps, there was nothing I could see that defined those as clickable thanks, also the ssb thing was a typo :(