In your screenshot above you have the files backwards - you selected a .bps patch file for the ROM, and selected a zip containing your ROM for the patch. Need to unzip the zip file and reverse your selection.

Congrats on the wedding! 😂

Awesome run! Those end fights are killing me 😭

Unfortunately seems like this has been patched/removed in the console ports. If anyone is able to get it working, mind posting a reply?