Are you a Fuck Up?
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7 years ago
South Carolina, USA

I'm not trying to be funny or an asshole when I say this. You should go get help.

France

The fact of having problems is very relative and very proper to each person : All people have issues, with minor or big impact in their lifes. But whatever you are enduring, life is all about facing problems that sometimes you didn't ask for, and overcoming challenges that sometimes you can't avoid.

Unfair or not, there are here, right in front of you, letting you the choice to fight, or to give up. I don't have the right to say to you which one is right or not, because I don't know your issues, and I'm not you. I can just guide you with these following questions :

  • Are these problems avoidable if you decide to change anything in your life ? (environment, social people, hobbies, qualities and faults, schedules, habits...)

  • If it's a no, are these problems possible to resolve if you decide to change anything in your life ?

  • If changing anything in your life can resolve this, is it worth the try, even if you have to do some sacrifices ? (like doing hard work, killing your freetime...)

It's complicated to help you precisely because I don't know your issues, and I don't want you to reveal them publically. But keep in mind that like DarkerStix said, you still can ask people for help or advises. Some solutions require time, new points of view and another oxygen to be found.

Chiba, Japan

I doubt there are people who are free of all the problems in whatever stuff in their life, people should have at least one or two problems in something they have to care for, no matter how serious / trivial for you to face with in a certain haul. But I think one's life also at times tests one's own "capability" of enduring these challenging things somehow.

As Yajiji already said above it's the best idea to try to resolve the issues by trying to "alter" something in your life because it's sometimes necessary to do some sacrifices if you truly wish things would go as you wished for sure, but I think to whatever outcome it might lead you, it's important to not give up downright. Some things can turn advantageous to you by chance as time rolls by (the problems might become smaller, you get more courage to deal with them etc) so waiting for those opportunities to befall upon you is another choice if you think you are not ready for overcoming it at first hand. ^^